What is a Christian? #Christian

Ever feel like we’re all in a world where we speak baby and we don’t understand each other!!!???
Extremely sad isn’t it? So if you know me at all I’m constantly trying to improve my personal relationship with Jehovah God and this world constantly keeps trying to creep in and interfere, but that’s a very big mistake I quite honestly can’t remember the scripture right now but Jehovah God clearly says that if you screw with his people he’s going to screw with you!!! So if I was any of you I would not piss him off. He truly is a god of love and even though I am not entirely pure. I prefer to be good and stay away from sexual jokes. Somehow I am currently age 32 and I have kept the precious gift of my virginity, haven’t smoked, haven’t had tattoos haven’t had piercings, never done anything with the same sex and many other things!!! So how have I stayed so dedicated to the holy standards that God expects all Christians to live by!!!??? I don’t know, because I’m so confused myself seeing how I love women!!! Which by the way the whole definition of Christian is being “christ-like”, so just because you say your one does it mean your one your actions speak it for you 24/7. I know that’s a tough pill to swallow, but it’s very true of all of us including myself. No one likes to feel inadequate. But do you know what we base that in adequacy upon? Other people’s opinions, perceptions or however you may say it about us! Say you don’t care about what other people think about you? Prove it! Your actions just like mine speak for who we truly are. Say you’re a mechanic? Don’t show me a piece of paper which can be falsified!! Show me with your actions!!! Say you’re a website designer prove it to me!!! Say you are a marketer? I will either pay you or give me a 30-day free trial of your marketing skills, so don’t tell me show me!!! Now if you say you’re a doctor that really doesn’t matter because I don’t even believe the people at Baptist Memorial Hospital are doctors!!!