Why do you feel you need haters?

I used to be your “average Joe” when it came to getting things done. Whenever someone would praise me it would inspire me to do more, but whenever someone would criticize me be a naysayer as they say or a hater I would therefore get depressed and then have thoughts of suicide. Now I take both energies hate and love and they both fuel my fire! Well-meaning friends and family say things like: Honey baby I couldn’t do it. So how can you? Just because they didn’t do it and not couldn’t do it mind you, have the nerve to say to me that it can’t be done and when you tell me it can’t be done and it’s a goal of mine you’re going to be proven wrong every single time!! To answer the above well-meaning friends or family and even complete strangers. I am going to accomplish my dreams because I think outside of the box, I think purpose and not a plan. Because plans change and purpose does not! About 90-something percent of the people around us today go by plans only and not by purpose that’s why when changes arise they lose their composure. I am the type of person that does not like change for a very good reason, because change takes time out of my life and I’m going to do everything within my power to create a 1990’s world for myself and anyone else that wants it!!